A simple triangle sketched on a soiled bar napkin changed my selling and changed my life. It happened 30 years ago as I sat at the bar in a dark, smoky café in Amsterdam. I thought I knew how to sell. A top salesman at my company, they already called me their sales superstar. Id had all the best sales training features and benefits, overcoming objections, and my favorite, ABC (always be closing). But still, I didnt know how to sell. Not the right way. Not the way that makes selling easy.
Next to me sat a Dutch native, Petric. I never learned his last name. Sadly, at the end of a long evening of strong drink, I failed to get his business card. We discovered that we both were in sales, and I soon learned that he was the top producer in all of Europe in some sort of industrial electronics. After several drinks, Petric leaned in and asked if I wanted to know his success secret. Yes, of course.