There is much written about retirement-readiness but most of it is focused on financial or legal issues. To sail smoothly into this next phase of life, it is also important to consider the emotional side of retirement. This requires a hard look at yourself, your sources of identity and self-esteem, your need for structure and your desire to give back. In addition, don’t forget to consider how retirement will change your relationships, both inside and outside of the home. It’s easier to do this self-reflection before retirement is upon you, though it’s never too late.
Retirement varies for each person so it’s difficult to follow in someone else’s shoes. Be honest with yourself about what’s important to you as you approach this transition. Many people find it helpful to think it through by talking to a counselor or a coach. Most Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) provide no-cost career counseling and/or can refer you to an outside coach. If your retirement is involuntary and you are offered outplacement, take full advantage of those services. Talking with friends, writing in a journal and reading books and articles on retirement issues can often help with this process.
